Thursday, April 9, 2009

How to understand and master the law of attraction?

I want to use the law of attraction (as described in the secret) to get this girl that I'm interested in. How can this be done? How can I understand the law of attraction more, and apply it to my life? It has really intrigued me. Serious answers please.


The law of attraction for a fact has no solid scientific basis yet so far. Although there are a lot of claims from various individuals that it works. Being myself a positive thinker, I guess it is just my nature, I do believe in the idea and it works a lot of times with me.

Your question is how you could master the law of attraction in relation to the girl that you really like. First, you have to remember always that the law is all about affirmation of what you feel and think. If you want the girl to reciprocate in liking you as you like her, in my experience, I focused on five things:

1. how to get her attention in the most positive way, For instance just focus on how you feel about her by acting it out in the most positive way. Show that you are trustworthy, honest and thougthful. This may take time, but show that you really enjoy every moment of your time with her. Demonstrate what is meant by care and patience. Demonstrate prudence.

2. Once you have her attention, do anything that would develop her interest in you by demonstrating that you have what it takes to be a good and trustworthy partner in life. Don't force her to enjoy with you but rather show all the time that you enjoy your moments with her. This unrelenting attitude of enjoyment with her everytime you are together eventually would attract her to you.

3. When her attention progressed into interest, begin to develop her desire to be with you and eventually accept you as a trustworthy friend. Always affirm your positive feelings with her to yourself.

4. Lastly, when her Attention, Interest and Desire (AID) is already there, you actually can feel it, I'm sure. Take ACTION by having the courage and strength to propose to her. If the AID is not yet obvious to you, wait for the right time. Remember, take patience and be always prudent in all your ways with her. If you are really positive all the time, you will know when is the right time and only you can tell this.

If you really want her, you will certainly have her in God's time. God will never fail you as His child. So keep on affirming what you want until you have it.

Well LOA is about using this "law" in a right way. This girl may not be interested in you if you are not vibrationally in harmony with her. The girl has her own free will. Ask for a relationship with a girl who will like and love you, and then LOA will bring her to you, it may or may not be her. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/accuse_write?qid=20070329234853AAoNRLz&kid=B8d5H1vdBE7dLUkL30aJ&s=comm&date=2008-11-20+16%3A58%3A35&.crumb=

To understand the law of attraction, you shall have to understand the third law of motion first. i.e. "Every action has a equal and opposite reaction."

So if you feel attraction towards anyone, realise that a equal and opposite reaction is being applied from other side. It menas that if you are feeling attraction towards a person at any moment of time, then you shall receive opposite from that person at that moment of time.

Lesson, be neutral and other person or feminine will come closer to you, because she will not feel any repulsion from your side.

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To impose your desires upon another person's will is in itself for most people, unattractive.

Be yourself. let her know what you have to offer her. Then let her make her own desicion, and accept it.

You should ask this on that website. They have a forum.

http://thesecret.tv/home.html

After you join for free go to the "top secret" section.

the law of attraction (also read "a little light on the spiritual laws-diana cooper) is basically this: you attract that which you focus on! if you are going to keep on focusing on that which you don't want to happen, you are going to attract exactly that because your focus and energy will be on the negative emotions you will experience if you don't get what you want! if you want something focus on the feeling you'll have if you get it. your best bet is not to focus on getting this specific girl but rather focus on the type of person you want to attract, the type of feelings you want to feel...visualize yourself feeling the love, laughing, sharing whatever, but always always focus on what you want and not on that which you don't want to happen. the reason why i say not to focus on a specific person is because i believe that we should allow the universe, God whatever you want to call it to bring you the person that will be worthy of your affection and love and unfortunately we as humans don't always know what is best for us or often waste our time, love and happiness on someone that isn't really worthy of it....by focusing on the feelings and the type of relationship you want, you'll then attract the one that you are meant to be with...in your case i truly hope it's this girl, but if it isn't and you get your focus right you'll attract someone so much more worthy....

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Give her service without fuss or pride along with the body chemicals of attraction will decide. Don't forget when you don't get what you want you suffer. Magnets don't have to be pushed or forced together it is the law of nature that brings then together what brings humans together is service, respect, humility / humbleness and of course body chemistry but don't force it otherwise it will break forever, and you will be afflicted for seeking something that was never yours.

Well, the very first step before mastering anything is to observe, deduce and then execute, afterwhich if you fail in your first attempt, you go back to step one, which is observation (to find out where you went wrong) and rectify things from there. Practice makes perfect.

So lets start. What does the law of attraction state?

Unfortunately, there can be no 'law' per se with regards to human attraction, because the variables are plenty and are constantly fluctuating (read: it differs for everyone) so its pretty much a case by case basis, well, at least for people like me (and possibly you) because I don't like living my life as something that's just a 'see touch go'. I like to analyse and ponder about its details, and people like us don't exactly want to have the average person as a companion. Am I right or wrong?

So it depends. What are your interests? What are her interests? What about her attracts you? What about YOU attracts her?

Before you can even GET anything, you got to know the game, and from there plan your next steps. Something like war. lol.

In any case, some common variables that are related to this so called 'law of attraction' are things like interests, communication (how communicative you both are), likes and dislikes (how willing are you to acceed to her likes and dislikes and vice versa; something like adaptation) and a few others.

Physical attraction is one of the variables, but I don't really care much about physical attraction. Do YOU?

So, yeah. Just my 2 cents. Might help you, might not.

-shrugs

When your feelings are true and great then your thought could be an idea to something life could one day come to appreciate. (feeling has to go with your thought in order to manifest a form ie; the chick you like! you have to have a good feeling behind your thought and im sure you will obtain what you desire! I have proof!

different poles attract to each other. Same with reality, people with opposite qualities like each other!

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